“I don’t like it when people don’t do their jobs. If they have a full time job, and aren’t dedicated to it, I don’t appreciate them.” Lily has a double master’s civil servant job. She loves her work, and isn’t focused on money, instead, she’s focused on being pragmatic.
You may ask, since all of Lily’s colleagues are also civil servants, can’t she find a partner in her department? Yeah, but the truth is, Lily has a small number of people in her department, plus many of her male colleagues are younger than her and they aren’t as social. That is why she couldn’t find anyone.
At the beginning of the year, she decided to take the first step, to participate in speed dating activities. But because the people she met were too simple, and slow, she switched to one on one dating. She met two men, but there wasn’t any development.
On her third date, he’s a 49 year old who had just come back from Britain. His name is Ben. Ben is cheerful, organized, sincere and courteous. Lily was the first person he dated. They hit it off, having conversations about many topics. Ben also seized the opportunity as a time to date Lily and asked her to meet weekly. Two months later, Lily agreed to pursue the relationship.
Why did Lily take the initiative to choose Ben? “He works in a bank, that’s not her type…”Well, Ben chose a picture from a 3D photo shoot for his profile picture. Lily felt his sincerity and left a deep impression. So, when you choose your profile pictures, you must carefully select them!
